You serve several very valid points to which I mostly agree with. The one that I do firmly disagree with is the thought that you countered 'grandfathering in' a rule which was only conflicted post character creation by stating the rule you intended on me breaking was that this is to be an invite-only roleplay. I don't feel like one should contraindicate the other based on the premise that one is a rule conflict made by you unintentionally and the other is one that you slightly alluded to disregarding based on some other merit.

What I mean to say here is that I do not see an issue that arises that only exists due to the creators or moderators or something should be something to be used 'against' the admittance of an individual or a character within a roleplay. Additionally, you did make undeniable claims that I might have a spot in this and honestly I'm not upset about that. What irks me is that I feel a character here has been denied and a roleplayer not involved solely due to something at the fault of the moderators. I don't find that fair whatsoever. 

Lastly, I could have easily been an addition to your circle of friends. Events like this only limit your already limited pool.