[quote=Vortex] Personally i feel that if you cannot prove it or show me good odds that it is probably correct then i do not know how you can possibly believe it. [/quote] Something that is 100% proven to me, is not necessarily proven to you. That's partly because of different thresholds for 'proof,' yes, but even if we ignore that, it's often a matter of perspective. "Is this relationship healthy?" To rely solely on concrete, demonstrable and irrefutable truth, such a question would paralyze you. Human nature can't be treated as binary. We're not robots.... Look at the stock market, look at sports, look at politics, look at religion, look at art, look at any human endeavor; we're not creatures of mathematics, we're creatures of spirit. Wild, unpredictable, transcendent.