Life and not being able to post is fine, but do jot down notes on a piece of paper or in your phone for posts, so that you don't sit there when you have time to write and go "what the hell should I write?" This way, the process will be quicker and less "fuck, I have to do this." The second you feel that posting in my roleplay is a chore, you should either talk with me or consider some other option. 

I'm also considering replacing the current combat guidelines with something even more casual, no numbers whatsoever, just to make combat less of a hick-up in story progression.

To help you relax and think:
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