[quote=Griever] Your priorities come first.If a man wasn't willing to put up with your life, he would have been gone a long time ago. I think you made a bad choice honestly. [/quote] He's the type of guy who wouldn't ever dare speak out about his emotions. If his own mother just died and I asked if he was okay it'd be "I'm fine" and he'd put on that poker face. He's dropped hints that he's not happy, always asking for more time together and hinting at the obvious. But he would never, never, leave me because I have a full plate. He's too good a man for that. But I think that in any relationship, both people have to get what they need. And he wasn't getting it. Also... I was his first girlfriend. And he's 24. So that might be why he has such a hard time understanding that a relationship isn't just doing what your girlfriend wants when she wants, it's about working together to be fulfilled, I guess. Maybe you're right though.. I Donno, like I said, I just couldn't do it anymore. I couldn't sit there any tell him week after week that "I don't have time for you" because I know how much it hurts to hear that.