Meh... it makes no difference to me in the the end, Paradigm. Besides for all I know most of the people I know may not be what I expect, I mean it is the Internet based after all... shit as far as anyone's concerned I'm an extraterrestrial :)

But you are right the most gentlemanly female I know *sticks thumb out in front of me*
Want a cupcake or muffin?
*holds both out in front of me*
Only one or the other though :D