idk its your choice whichever to go with.

I agree with you on many things except I believe the wrestler to have the advantage. Having sparred both in real life the wrestler is much harder to deal with. I have grappling experience in a style that is much like aikido which is entirely skill based. The djem so user redirectin blaster bolts is not soresu it is shien the form that djem so derives from. I feel if the soresu user can manage for long enough he could have an advantage later. However the djem so user specializes in saber dueling and creating openings which makes me believe thatat the beginning and towards the middle of the fight he will have a distinct advantage. Not saying victory is absolute for either at any stage however as a style made for combat it is much better equipped for it. My real life example being Shotokan karate versus tai chi.