[quote=Cuco]Personal problem; having a hard time understanding where the border between player and character ends. It seems like whenever I have a character get hostile with another character in an RP, it always spills out into the OoC. I mean, I'm quite aware there should be a division between that sort of thing, but it always seems to happen with me. Do I just have bad luck, or is there more to this?
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I don't actually have that much experience with that kind of situation, but I believe the "border" gets broken mostly due to a lack of communication. If it just happens out of the blue, the other person might feel like you're doing it simply because you don't like them. I'm pretty sure I know what incident you're talking about, and I don't quite recall if there was any discussion about it. It's too easy to see yourself in your character and and up getting offended when someone doesn't like them. Correct me if I'm wrong about this.

Random issue: people who say they'll do things but then just disappear without a word and then apologize a few days later. If you complain about not having anything to do and and then we make plans to do something, it's implied that we're going to follow through with it, and if we don't, you tell me.