Bee, can I ask you how you envision leading us? You do not want conflict with your brother, but then what would you hire a mercenaries company for? If you want to talk to me about possible plots you can imagine like that, feel free to PM me about it. Until then I cannot really accept you, cause I need to know more. 

Please don't take it as an insult though, I think you would be well suited as a queen although I had an aggressive queen in mind, who'd wish to take back the throne. Instead, you seem perfectly contend sitting in Stags Rest, biding your days doing nothing. While that can work, you/we'd need to work out some things to keep it interesting, if you understand that?