He's not really my main character, he just happens to be the one we've seen the most of so far. And it's not like he even wanted to go to the party in the first place. And he will mingle eventually. Well, he'll at least introduce himself to the Gu'Shedal. And it's not like nobody's liable to notice the 8' tall elf and go talk to him.

Plus he's not really a people person. And being raised around a family where most of them resent his presence probably didn't exactly help.