Wow I can tell you were annoyed in that post. Illiendi didn't insult anyone in my last post, in fact he apologized and explained a Maarth custom to them. I think you're being rather purposely unfair to him in that post. I get its clearly a strong point of view for you and that's fine but he never said he liked little slave girls who do whatever a man says. If he did he wouldn't like Amano's mother. Yes he doesn't agree what they have is 'love' in his eyes/mind so to speak, remembering the word lvoe to him conjours a whole different world to what it does for humans and yes he finds Laiza rude but that doesn't mean he doesn't like women who speak their mind. His mistresses (of which he's had two) were both outspoken women in their time with their own minds and opinions but they were respectful and well spoken on the matter. They acted like women not children on the matter, I will post a reply to that post but I am keeping my own personal views out of this rp and I'd really like for you to try and do the same. 

Just so its clear I don't like people who swear and curse and act like fools, I appreciate a clever mind a quick wit and someone who can be honest without being purposely brutal. Men, women, other it doesn't matter, respect costs nothing and means everything to me. So I'm hardly a woman hater either before you get the wrong idea on me.