yeaaaaaaaaaaaah. i left my family XD I barely talk to them anymore. 
My in-laws for the win. 

But I get it. my family was the same. Up in your face. trash talking you to everyone else behind you back when you made them mad. No secrets allowed because you tell one person, they all know. any time you do something nice they think you have some ulterior motive and complain. 
*huff*
i avoid them, now. XD