My first RP ever died after the fourth post...words could not describe my disappointment. 

As the for the stats, I think it is kind of a turn off for some mostly because it balances out combat. I'd wager most people who make a character go in with the idea that their character is the best in their field so to have to work at it could seem a bit too much work. As for me I've never tried it before so I'm eager to see how I do.