"I...I don't know. I know what it's like to...To lose a lot of people. And....you just kinda wanna give up but...being alone doesn't help and you can't just be...done." Ben was so bad at this comforting people thing, "I mean, you [i]can[/i] be, but, like...even if you're done and you think you've lost everything you have to keep trying until you find something to keep you going. You know?" 

He didn't know what he was saying at this point, all he knew is that he didn't want Arvo to be alone. He felt so awful for what happened to Arvo's group, for what happened to Arvo, for everything that happened. He wanted to make that right, he wanted to help Arvo because like he said before Arvo was one of the only good things to come out of this whole mess.