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That's probably a big deal in Japan, since I think modern Japanese culture is just full of men and women who work really hard and don't really have as much time or interest in committed relationships. Of course you actually live there you'd probably know better than me


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I was on base and they were all black women in the military XD Most if not all were married with kids. 
They're all great to talk to. As a socially girl, they make me feel welcome. ^ ^