[@Spawnling] I can work with this, but there is one tiny problem, Ian doesn't get the concept of either cheating or being with only one person for the rest of your life. To him  love should be given to all, in one way or another. This belief mixed with his previous state of wonder lust means that I think it'll be hard for him to establish a strong enough romantic connection with anyone. I'll explain this idea better when I'm less tired/on acomputer