I read the previous OOC and feel rather insensitive...

Zarkoon, (couldn't help it:P) is right. Holding grudges is bad, not just physical health, but mental health too. If you spend your life hating someone, for anything, it can make you treat other people badly and poison your relationship with others who remind you of that person or have something to do with them.


But, hell I'm not a phyciatrist, more of a hypocrite because I hold grudges too.