I have a reply in mind for Gabriel but I need to get some sleep. I came back from work super late, too many appointments and I under estimated the time they needed. 

Compromise will be appropriate on their first encounter, hopefully curiosity will be satisfied though. She will test his oath undoubtedly, and see what counts as over reaching the boundaries. Satisfying him and herself are her deeper desires though. I think with Nadine's experiences and her priorities, the trust is the most precious factor about being involved with someone. However, to caveat the BDSM completely out of her sex life, won't ever completely happen for her. We will see.

Option one it is, buddy. Thank you for your patience, I am off to catch some zzz's.