[quote=@Zurnt] And I mean, there's no real way to keep writing a "healthy relationship" because it's inherently boring. [/quote] I feel sorry for you. Edit: Now a great example of how to write a healthy relationship (and KEEP writing it) is J.D. Robb's "In Death" series. Romantic Suspense/Crime novels. The protagonist is married to a hot guy who didn't rape her. Shocking.