[quote=@Sombrero] I'm not sure feminism is the boogeyman you're looking for here. Men don't talk about their problems because of the "manly" ideals that have been instilled in them over hundreds of years, before Feminism even existed. You don't see men in ads because women are the ones addressing this, because no one has spent generations building a social construct that tells women not to tell people about their shit and only deal with everything themselves. [/quote] This. The problem isn't that feminism is blocking male issues. The problem is that men's rights movements have focused all their attention refuting feminists and are spending no effort actually helping men. Women didn't get the vote by whining that men were mean. They marched, they protested, they signed petitions and made noise. People are generally more reasonable then everyone likes to think. If you make an effort pointing out the skewed design of child support, or the sexual stereotypes attached to abuse, people will eventually listen. Because really, in both sexes, the support is already there, it just hasn't coalesced yet.