I apologize if this was an issue for you, and I must explain that I have a case of OCPD (obsessive compulsive personality disorder), and more importantly, Asperger's Syndrome. I will have the tendency of becoming picky, and bossy. Also when someone talks to me, other than my parents, I sound irritated in my voice and emotional tone. The reason why I dont have true friends. 

It's hard, believe me, and Im now telling you that it might happen every now and then. This reaction from you is a warning for me now, and it's a message for me to not be bossy. I will stop now. *tears fall*