[quote=@Azarthes]
Like I wouldnt invite them to my wedding 
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Well, if you listen to them no one from my fiancées side of the family is going to go.
[quote=@Rusalka]
Well that was just cunt-fistingly awful of them.  If some bitch in-law ever did that to me and my fiancée, you can guarantee I'd turn their wedding into a funeral, the self centered fucks. <.<
[/quote]I really just want to snap...

[quote=@Aragorn]
Cunts. I'd say they didn't deserve to go to the wedding in the first place.
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Oh yeah and might I add his brother and new fiancée have only been dating for 5 months and she's already three months pregnant... 
[quote=@KnightShade]
Don't have any experience with in-laws, but bitchy narcissistic relatives are a tick. 27 years ago my aunt made my mum cry by telling her she'd only got pregnant to get their dad's attention. Her main hobby to this day is guilt tripping and manipulating my Nan (the only family member who can't see through her bullshit) into giving her money, eating food she hates, and just generally making her miserable but having her turn it on the rest of her family and friends so she becomes more isolated from everyone else. Oh yeah, she also banned my Mum from visiting Nan in hospital, but my Nan doesn't know this and just thinks she's the perfect daughter.

Anyway, I've watched my Dad get angry at her and vent to me about it. I've watched my Mum get stressed out over it and the toll that's taken on their marriage. Neither of those approaches seem to work. I only really got around to dealing with it when I realized how fucking pathetic you have to be to have nothing better to do with your life than hate your own family. You've got to see how much bigger and better a person you are by just trying to live your life well, while they have to tear down and compete to feel good about themselves. Try to forgive, and even pity them, because they should matter that little to you.
[/quote]thats what I plan on doing but my own mother keeps telling me to make peace with them but I don't think I can take anymore of their comments. When I first started dating my fiancée nearly two years ago his mom would do nothing but tell me how fat I am and tell me I should lose weight and that she wishes her son could find someone older. Even went as far as telling me she had a size 28 pair of jeans I could have... I barely fit in a size 10 (which I know isn't toothpick status but still) and the only reason she has those pants is because she got gastric bypass surgery after having 3 hearts attacks from being overweight

[quote=@Antarctic Termite]
With luck, it might be that now that you're getting married it'll be easier for your boy to put distance between you and them- He has his own family now, and though you're not going to get rid of the in-laws completely, they should respect that they're not entitled to be a centrepiece of your relationship anymore. If they don't, that fucking sucks, but it's their problem to deal with and you aren't obligated to try and reconcile.

No more family dinners where guilt is the main course, hopefully.
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Definitely no more family dinners! I'm really glad I came here because people in my offline life were telling me that I was just being ridiculous because the comments made on Facebook were never intended to be seen by me so it's not like they're out to make me feel bad