[quote=Smiral]It was the exact opposite of a shitty experience, but it was never going to amount to anything.[/quote] This is about what I have to say on the topic. My first boyfriend I met online and kept it up for over a year, including two visits. After the second, I just realized that living in different countries, three thousand miles apart and getting to see each other once every six months was just not worth it. I'll always treasure the time we spent and he was my first but it was not going to go anywhere. We both had different ideas of what the goal should be and it fell apart. It's not that it can't work out, it's just an added difficulty to maintaining a healthy relationship.