[quote=@Pair of Hearts]
I get misunderstandings happen, but when you [b]know[/b] you may have accidentally irritated someone with your big fat yapper and unappreciated "advice" or "comment" or "joke", you apologise.

Not get people around you to vouch for you or apologise for you, while you go around playing victim when all you have to do is say sorry and wise up.

Man, hate those kinds. Letting haphazard stupidity run rampant and staying ignorant about things, because they pride themselves as "I didn't mean to be a dick so if I sounded like one I'm not gonna apologise!" and other people meekly try to fix the wake of their blunders.

[b]tldr; people who get in trouble and never try to fix it themselves.[/b]
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Eventually those kind of people are going to get wrecked in a bad way, so it'll sort itself out in time.