[@Undine]
Haven't experienced much godmodding personally, but I've seen a bit of metagaming when people use info their characters would never have come up with. So I'm sorry to hear people have been making it rough for you. I hope you've told them off cause that's not really on.

It all comes down to the writing too.
"The two walked through the door," compared to, "he walked through the door with her behind him"
Both characters are doing the same action, but it's left open in the second verse. She has the option NOT to walk through that door. So like I said earlier, I'd be pointing out where you got God modded and be firm with how it's wrong. Tell them to fix it.

As for character traits, that's just plain stupid. A person's trait is not like a magic spell. Being a person of lust doesn't mean everyone will want to bang you, being angry doesn't mean you walk around yelling at everyone and throwing things like the Hulk, so why would Charisma hypnotise others into believing you're the most admirable bring in existence.