[@Whimsley]
I'll be able to take my character back if I still may. Your call. The only problem is trying to fix the character... Also, [@Lasrever] I'm thinking Abigail made a few too many actions in her post. It isn't likely she would get past the running away part before the "bad guy" could react.

And if I may point out, in both the game and show most trainers are easily able to identify Pokemon genders if they pay it any attention. You'll notice the game always tells you, and even most newbie trainers in the shows (Ash being an exception) can usually tell. And think about it, even in real life it is normal easy, they just cant show the differences in a kids show.