[@Rica] Well my personality is very masculine, and alpha in a sort of 'take charge' sort of way. But I have long-ish hair and can be fairly metro-sexual myself. I'm not trying to make a pass here, but I am aware you are a real life penny nichols which is a bit of a fantasy for me..... .....but anyway, I totally agree with you, girly stuff is hot, and I love to take the lead. If I was to be with a femboy/trap I'd definitely be the top I cant be a bottom. No ones penis is going anywhere near me thats gay to me and does absolutely nothing for me. I have to be the active participant otherwise I'm not participating at all. So in that sense I'm very manly.