Widow - Avery (lost??)
Lila - Roger*******Married
Roman -Roxy********married 
James - Iris ????
Undina - Akio******married
John - Phoenix ????

Are James & Iris and John & Phoenix married? 
Did Lila & Roger do the photos? 

[@KindledBeast]
Not sure how much of the parent interact you want to do.