A relative of mine doesn't go to the doctor when they should. I hate that. Not only do they neglect their own health when doing this, but they worry everyone else in the family and try and play off the medical issue that they face. This kind of behavior has been going on for years. An illness comes up, and they try and wait it out, even when they need medication for an illness. Before they do go to the doctor, they wait until the pain is unbearable, or the symptoms become visible to an unsettling degree. I really want them to go to the doctor when an illness begins, but they're very stubborn. I don't know what caused it, but it needs to stop.