[quote=@hatakekuro] Thanks, that means a lot. As soon as I get the chance, I'm cutting him out of my life. Honestly out of the whole thing, my brother was the most messed up by all of this. I've accepted that my father is a piece of shit, but my brother is still coming to terms with it. [/quote] Yeah once college is paid for, get him as FAR away from your family as possible. And if he tries to harass you guys more, bring on the restraining order. Well, at least coming to terms is better than not coming to it at all.