So as some of you may or may not know I am getting married on April 1st of 2017... I've made a post before detailing the trials and tribulations I've faced during the planning process from my fiancées family. Well, the saga continues. His father won't acknowledge my existence to the point where he will say to someone else "can you make that move?" If I'm in his way. Granted, I was getting used to it. BUT NOW his brother who was supposed to get married in October is has now decided he's going to have TWO full blown weddings. One in January before ours and one in October after ours. Their reasoning? They want to be married and don't want to wait until October but they want to have their wedding still after ours so they can use the slogan "saving the best for last"... THEN I get a message from his brothers fiancée telling me all of this and saying "I know you guys are okay with it I don't know why I even. Thought I I needed to give you a heads up! LOL" first of all we are not and never will be friends this is literally the first time she acknowledged my presence so what the FUCK does she think she is just assuming we would be okay with it??????? I am beyond pissed off and truly considering rescheduling my wedding but I don't know what to do. We've already mailed save the dates like it would get real complicated. 


And I know it seems stupid to even care but they are also using the same venue, they are using our DJ, they have the same bridal party with the exclusion of my sister, and they want to use the same church as us. Twice. I mean am I losing my mind or would anyone be bothered by this???