Well, it turns out I'm a writer before an RPer. Been RPing a side story completely not involving character interactions with the other RPers. It's like those Skyrim side quests. Your Main Quest is to fuck a dragon, but then you see a Draugr Tomb and go there first and then you find a Bandit Hideout and need to fuck them first then you see you came upon a TALKING DOG and need to help a diety and during helping the diety you find the Assassin's hideout. By this point I've forgotten the main quest.

So my point is...hhhh..6 years later SKYRIM is still kickass!