[quote=ImANargleHunter]
4. It's not the same and it's beside the point.My point is that some people just aren't meant to have children. It's a huge responibility and you have to be willing to sacrifice literally everything for your child. You can't think of yourself first anymore and that can be surprisingly difficult. Some people shouldn't be parents and that's fine.
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True that, very true. I think if someone isn't willing to dedicate themselves to their children, it would be best if they decided *not* to have them. Because it really screws with the persons head when parents have their child, then friggin give them away--or abandon them, and never friggin have a part in their life. It's like, "wtf did you even have me for then" when that happens. Still, better to give the child up for adoption or something, than to halfheartedly raise them, all the while harboring secret (or not so secret) feelings of anger/regret towards them that they eventually pick up on.

Like you said, some people just shouldn't be parents!