[@The Grey Dust] To me this looks like an Rper issue as opposed to a character one. We had a similar issue when we 1x1'ed. Soon as you character was in the best of light he (and you by extension) started this "walk away" from group. Seems to be a cycle with you. 

Thomas screwed up, big time,  numerous times.  Consequences come from mistakes, end of story. Why Kyra is pissed, Sana is a childhood friend.

As far as a character being hated,  doesn't matter.  I have other rps where characters aren't just hated,  they are down right loathed. Have been for nearly a year. They are still part of the main group. (Dick in TWD)