[quote=@Fetzen] *just shakes his head in disbelief* [/quote] Can't always agree with each other all the time so you're off the hook. [quote=@BCTheEntity] Notice how I've been staying out of all this and not saying anything. I will say at this point that I like Darkraven's character, myself, and I think she's probably not done anything worth kicking out of the game, otherwise POOHEAD would already have done it.[/quote] I'm confused by the phrasing... Because there's a very big difference between Darkraven's character and Darkraven. I swear that I'm not a succubus, if that's what you're worried about. :lol [quote=@BCTheEntity]That said, none of that situation was handled super well on either side, so... you know. Learn for next time, folks? [/quote] I'll admit that there's always a better way. Ideally, I would have wanted him to realise that he had been limiting himself big time and then join us. Win-win situation. We get a RPer whose creativity becomes limitless and he eliminates a huge obstacle in his writing. [quote=@POOHEAD189] He did not throw a 'hissy fit.' He simply said he was leaving. You're the one who is throwing one now[/quote] Sure, I might have gone overboard with saying that he threw a hissy fit, but two wrongs don't make a right, Poohead. [quote=@POOHEAD189], behind his back about him. I will not tolerate that.[/quote] Isn't PMing about him the ultimate way of talking behind his back? That's my belief. If I put it here, it's right in front of him if he wishes to see it. That idea kinda opens a whole can of worms though. It means that everyone's been talking behind everyone's back which actually isn't such a crazy idea in today's topsy-turvy society. It would be more accurate to say that PMing is more for keeping the streets clean, but does nothing for morality. I once knew a GM's sister who PMs me bad things about the GM. It's not pretty, but it's even more insidious. At the end, no one likes her because it shows in other ways. Probably because someone else PMed bad things about her? Anyway, you should see the pattern. But if you want to keep your streets clean, I'll respect that. [quote=@POOHEAD189]I enjoy you as an RPer Darkraven, but atm I must tell you to cease and desist.[/quote] ^ As Above. I want just as much to move on but I like all the peripheral issues to be solved first. This time around, I'll be happy to settle it with 'to each his own' because everyone's going to think they're right. As a lit major, reader and writer, I gotta know that. No one's entirely wrong either, which in this case is obvious. [quote=@POOHEAD189]I will acknowledge that you were trying to make TFF feel better, and I agree she isn't to blame. But still, do it in a PM if you feel the need to shit talk someone to do it.[/quote] ^ As above But I guess I'll have to grudgingly buy into this system of shit talking behind everyone's back rather than laying it out in the open if I want to continue in this RP. While I'm not going to shit talk in PM... I guess the good thing is that the streets will be clean again. I'll be doing my part to hose it down with water and bleach. *Puts away suitcase and hat* :lol *Ran out of time to decide whether I want to post this or not. I'm not sure if saying all these things will matter or do any harm or good, but I gotta go to the gym. Just know that I'm trying to be honest and open about my thoughts.