[@aviendha] -- You make a good point that a lack of training would be death. I don't dispute that at all in any way, shape, or form. But rather than "I want my kid to potentially die knowing that I could have done something about it...", might not those parents think something more primal, like "I just don't want to lose my child"? And to wish, in the face of all the reality around them, that they did not have to give her up? And to be maybe just a little angry that there was no choice, regardless of the aristocratic zeitgeist or altruistic inclination?