[quote=@Hank]
Why?
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...As in why should you participate in the community at large? I don't think I should have to explain why that would at least be preferred...since people already brought it up. But for starters it would solve your "why does no one PM me?" problem.

I think I just have a clear divide of people explaining "mods that want to do there job" = bad. So therefore the opposite is better thing, completely do not understand why that's a thing...

No all moderators don't have to babysit...but I think a lot of this stuff is being taken personally. And hopefully no one is trying to be personal.

But hell here's a legit suggestion that could solve nearly 99% of problems... 

Create a sub-forum for literally ONE of the forum's. [b] Off topic/spam.[/b] It's where 99% percent of problems take place and hell seemingly where the spam-bots most often go to. If you don't want any of the responsibility to look through things, then give someone else whose active that specific job to do so...