[quote=Awson]
Showing them a bit of normalcy might not hurt.
[/quote]
This.

These people are getting a bunch of "I'm sorry" and "I you need anything, you can talk to me". Personally, I hate that shit, and if something bad happens to me, I want people to acknowledge it, but then move on, helping me to move on in the process.

Maybe i'm just weird like that.