Bingo! That's the one Frumentarri sounds so much more like my character and is perfect in line with his character. He will of course refuse to do certain acts but will fit in much better with them because of his race and class. 

By the way I am having trouble coming up with the right name [@everyone] does anyone know a good name for a wrath like monster? White kind of spectral ghost with the whole walking through walls, terrifying appearance, all that stuff