[quote=Protagonist]And then there's the more radical feminists who try to make the pro-life movement out to be filled with sexists or say that men can't have an opinion on abortion. I do not wish to argue about abortion here, but as a very pro-life man, I cannot in good conscience align myself with these types of people.[/quote]

I'm honestly Pro-Life myself so I can sympathize.

Personally though when I look at the issue of Abortion I see it as a "Child Rights VS Parent's Rights" issue, not a "Women's Rights VS Men's Rights issue".
If men could also be pregnant, but they had abortion rights that women didn't... then I'd call sexism.

But as it is? The fact only women are targets of this is a biological result of only women can get pregnant. 
So it does bug me when people use Abortion as an example for discrimination against women (at least in the sense of discrimination because they are a woman).

[quote=Protagonist] Back to the video game example, it seems very difficult to actually present a female character that feminists like.[/quote]

If people like Anita are your basis for that, it will never happen.

Even if a female character is written perfectly to be a great character in every way they will still be attacked for "Trying too hard to be a man".
It's just a logical fallacy that people like Anita cling onto so they can stir up the most controversy and cash in the most from it possible.