Sorry about your loss, Night. I know I'm a complete stranger, but sometimes talking about it helps. My inbox is always open. To answer your question, OP, I spent a lot of time trying to revive old roleplay sites. I wasn't sure if the Guild would be back, so I returned to my roleplay roots. I kept tabs on the Facebook group, then joined the backup forum when that was put up. For things off the internet, I didn't do too much. Skied a lot, read some, and helped plan a charity event. All good fun.