Baby, you need to have the talk and let him know about these things. At some point games are going to have to go and Don will have to use his noggin a bit by making sure your dogs go out to at least pee. I do it when I get in from work so that they don't have a long wait til morning. 
[cuddles]
If the situation isn't right for children then it needs to change lover. Make him sacrifice a few things cause heck knows you have