[quote=BrobyDDark]
This...Might take more than just some advice. Do you know anyone from Spam in real life? Or do you live around anyone that you've had conversations with before that you enjoyed?
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Not so much. I can be charming when I want things IRL but otherwise I don't pay others much mind aside from my bff and that is because we grew up together mostly. Even if she emotional and it annoys me she knows I will tear someone a new hole or ten for her if I must. So with her it works. 
 The question however: why is being honest not socially acceptable, but lying is. With me what you see is what you get and my word is my honor. It is simply no one really asks directly mostly. It has occurred to me that perhaps I should be more assertive without prompting but I figure others would ask if they cared. This leads me to believe they don't care on a level more than shallow. Is this correct or incorrect?