[quote=Esper]
Empathy and being open minded then. I have the latter. Where can I buy the former?
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God's Seven-Eleven is just today, soz bbz
I don't know how to answer that question, in seriousness. I've never found it difficult, personally. Simply try to take into consideration how what you say and do may affect others and how it will make them feel. If they are upset or something and you don't know why, or think they "shouldn't" be, try to look at things from their perspective. Empathy is about understanding.