Look, I think I understand as good if not better than anyone that personal life can get in the way, the other day for example. There was a confirmed VBIED threat and I'm a gunner, it's my job the spot these things and of course I'm dealing with shit back in the states. Everyone has issues, they do come first. I'm just different in the sense that my issues drive me closer to RP's (most of the time) because I need the mental escape. 

I told Leviathan (Who has a bad ass username) to post her CS here though it isn't 100% approved because I want to get feedback from my other GM's. As for Drummer, I hope you can remain involved, none of this big debate was to belittle you or threaten to kick you out or anything like that. Just a mutual desire to keep you involved at the same pace as all of us, but also keeping in mind that everyone is eager to post. Hope that at least clears up things.