[quote=Armed Forces] Sorry guys. My dad is literally making me do a crapton if housework, so I am probably missing/have missed/will miss some fun stuff... Yet again... Sorry. [/quote] It's okay. We'll figure something out. [quote=whizzball1] The adults around me continually say that kids are God's greatest blessing for a couple. You really want to miss out on that? Both marriage, and "it" were made for married couples. I searched all the verses I can on abstinence and it only spoke about abstaining from sexual immorality. It's absolutely moral with your partner. There is no Biblically sound reason to remain abstinent. [/quote] I absolutely want to miss out on that. Second, I want a biblical acceptance, not necessarily a reason. If we both agree to remain abstinent, I don't see why God would have a problem with it. Sure it's a gift, but one that I don't want to use.