[quote=Legend] It's okay. We'll figure something out. I absolutely want to miss out on that. Second, I want a biblical acceptance, not necessarily a reason. If we both agree to remain abstinent, I don't see why God would have a problem with it. Sure it's a gift, but one that I don't want to use. [/quote] Well technically Adam and Eve says you should abstain, since the whole story is a metaphor for sex.