"Of course I've been married although that was, let's see 100 years or so ago" she said before tucking the ring away. "It didn't last very long though, thing happened very quickly" she sighed, that was no lie but was also why she gave up her original name of Calla, the flower for weddings and funerals, the day she married was the day she buried her loved one and if anyone had heard the human general moving her that day they would know that. "Here's a puzzle for you lot, what is the calla lily? the answer is not flower but what is symbolises, see if you can understand it's meaning" she said to them testing just how long it would take for them to figure out. "and you know people don't always end up alone at times, there is always something new to happen the next day always some glimmer of hope sometimes it's just very hard to find" having picked up on the Doctor's thoughts then. Deadly chuckled a little listening to her as slowly she got used to the company of humans and got that bit more comfortable around them.