[quote=Awson] Breathe in, breathe out.Good. [/quote] I can feel the Zen moving through me. :rolleyes [quote=Dervish] Genuine question for those of you saying sorry to somebody; what's keeping you from actually saying it to the person? It's better to say and to know then to keep it to yourself with words left unsaid. [/quote] Not always. Sometimes things are too broken for a sorry to make any difference, and you've reached the point at which you both just need to move on and forget. Or perhaps the need to say sorry only comes in retrospect, long after the incidents at hand. There are a lot of reasons why actually saying sorry isn't always the best path.