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You... actually can't help yourself, can you? Christ, again, "refute" - this isn't a debate with the objective of somehow 'winning'. If you disagree, you disagree. I asked you to take into consideration my thoughts and opinions; I'm not going to try to force you to accept my view, because I'm far more interested in genuine discussion than simply being right and "refuting" any points you've made to prove how correct I am. Unlike yourself. It's not about proving how right your opinion is, man, it should be about listening to and considering alternate points of view. You approach this like I approach competition debates, not genuine discussions with my friends, peers, family, whoever.
But at this point, 90% of what's being said is arguing about the nature of arguing, or how well I'm arguing, rather than actually paying attention to the relevant points being made. It's an exercise in futility. Please, take away what I've said and think about it on a personal level, rather than as if it's a debate to be won. You don't have to change your mind, but still - consider the fact that I've actually been in the position I'm describing, afraid to speak out about my own genuine problems because of people like you screaming "FAKE AND GAY", so it [i]is[/i] something people experience and it [i]is[/i] worth thinking about, at the very least, even if you weigh up the different facets of the situation and decide that calling people out causes less harm than not doing so.