[quote=Halo]
 Really?From a massive message I sent to Dervish (so, informal conversation, the same context as keeps convincing people I'm female): 1. female (73.3 %)2. male (26.7 %)
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Yeah that's the thing. I can tell you from what I've learned of gendered speech: better vocab, more expressive, more agreeable (rather than obviously assertive), more emotion in general=conflated with female speech.